I don’t think I could NOT cry even if I wanted to when that implement is being used. It lands with a searing pain that exceeds even a water soaked cane. The implement “ The Wicked Switch“, is the most painful thing I’ve ever felt in my entire life. Part of that I believe is me letting go a little bit but other times I wonder. Question: Have These Real Spankings Ever Made You Cry?Īnswer: Yes. From the moment the very first swat or lash lands, the pain is overwhelmingly present and continues to grow throughout the duration of the spanking. And, unlike “fun” spankings, there are no light swats or warm up swats to start. So bending over the end of the bed (usual position for our domestic discipline spankings), bare butt, as she stands to the side with a harsh implement is a very daunting thing. Now, I don’t give myself that option and just take what is given. But that was because I was in control of stopping the pain as soon as it got to be too much for me.
When we were doing fun or sexual spankings, or spankings where I knew I could safeword out, I found those to be arousing. This is because I know that I’m in for a REAL DD spanking and what that feels like. Sometimes I may have a little bravado about the impending spanking, but the closer we get to the actual event, the more nervous I get. Question: When You Know She’s Going To Spank You, Do You Get Nervous Or Aroused?Īnswer: Nervous for sure. She knows how far to take things and I trust her implicitly. Lastly, because we’ve been doing this for a while, she knows my limits. We are lovers and best friends, and she knows me better than anyone else in the world. We are soulmates and were soulmates before we ever started down this road. Keep in mind, while the spankings are very real, very harsh, and very painful, there has never been a time where it has been abusive or sadistic. What ~I~ set out to do was to be truly accountable and take what SHE assigns and gives. I’m not opposed to that if that is what works for you. There are some that take punishment spankings up to a point, then safeword out. I must also understand that by doing so, I would be relinquishing the real domestic discipline element/lifestyle that we have developed and that has worked so well for us. But the moment I do that, then it isn’t a real spanking, is it? So I COULD stand up and stop it at any time and say, “I don’t want to take this anymore”. The fact that I take what is given, is consenting on my part because I’m never tied or restrained in any way. But what I’ve consented to (and continue to consent to), are real consequences by way of real domestic discipline spankings from my wife. Question: Since It’s “Consensual”, Do The Spankings Really Hurt?Īnswer: HELL YES they hurt! I can understand how the term “consensual” might lead one to believe that I consent only up to the point where it really starts becoming painful, then I can opt out citing I no longer consent to the spanking/pain. So…I’ve been asked a variety of questions around the topic of getting domestic discipline spankings and so thought I’d respond to them all here. If you aren’t familiar with us, I’d recommend reading the content on our homepage and also check out our “ About Us” page, which gives a better background on us and what we do. If you’ve read any of our blog, you probably know that we evolved into this lifestyle, somewhat organically.